ABOUT ME
Miss Pamela Blonde is an elite Edinburgh Dominatrix and Scotland's Femdom Heaven . An international Dominatrix and Fetish service provider with a commanding presence and a thirst for all things kink. My eyes and voice will hypnotise you and My creativity will leave you completely addicted. There is no one else like Me in the country and My impeccable reputation has rewarded Me with a devoted international client base alongside loyal submissives in my hometown of Edinburgh.
I expect nothing less than unwavering devotion and intentional worship from those who serve Me. This is expressed through complete obedience, carefully chosen gifts, and an eagerness to ease and enhance My daily life. When you treat Me as the Goddess I am, you’ll be rewarded with experiences that transcend fantasy.
I have had the privilege of being mentored by some of the UK’s most elite Mistresses, and I pride Myself on an unwavering dedication to mastering and evolving My craft, with particular expertise in Medical Fetish, CBT, and Bondage. My private BDSM dungeon, The Lilias Vault, was designed as the ultimate playspace: a sanctuary where My creativity flourishes and where I craft truly mind-altering experiences for those fortunate enough to serve Me.
MY SERVICES
I cater to a wide range of fetishes, it is always worth enquiring if you don't see your kink/fetish listed.
CLASSIC DOMINATION
Anal play
Ball Busting*
Body worship (non intimate)
Bondage*
CBT*
CNC*
CEI
CFNM
Chastity*
Corporal Punishment*
Cross Dressing
Facesitting (clothed)
Financial Domination
Fisting
Foot Worship*
Humiliation
Impact Play*
Latex*
Medical Fetish*
Mummification*
Nipple Torture
Needle Play*
Nylon
Objectification
Pet Play
Ruby showers
Rope Bondage
Scent Play
Sensory Deprivation
SPH
Watersports*
KINKY GFE
Is a more intimate experience with a Dominant woman your ultimate fantasy? Then you are looking in the right place. I do not believe a Dominant should deny herself the pleasure of using her submissives in every way she desires, and I sometimes find it can enhance the experience for both parties. I adore standing over my submissives, knowing they are aching to touch me, and I thoroughly enjoy using men for my pleasure.
Kinky GFE bookings work a little differently, I have a 2 hour minimum at £800 and I cannot take these bookings at my dungeon, these bookings are outcall only and must take place at a 4 or 5 star hotel. Playing in a beautiful space only excites me more.
TESTIMONIALS
Miss Blonde was very welcoming and open at the start of the session, getting to know a bit about me and my experience level and making me feel very comfortable within that setting. After introductions, She began giving instructions on how to worship her, and following every one was a pleasure. She is a beautiful, strict and sensual Mistress, who created an amazing experience for me. I really look forward to being able to serve her again in the future.- Sub D
"To step into a D/s environment can be quite intimidating and is a big thing for a lot of people, I know it is for me. Pamela Blonde made me feel comfortable and at ease from the first email, there was no rush and there was a special care given. In our sessions, I'm big on fear play and being out of my element and Pamela Blonde knows perfectly where to get me good, how to make me most vulnerable and shaking like a little mess. Sitting on the way home with a scarlet red behind, like purple stripes across it, it makes me proud of Her work. Safety is paramount and Miss Pamela always respects limits and will never go where you do not want to go, and once the session is over She’ll bring you down to earth and make sure you know you are safe. It’s a wonderful thing to enter a safe space, do fucked up things and still leave the safe space.. being safe. It sounds simple but it’s harder than what it sounds but not with Pamela Blonde. I really do look forward to building our D/s relationship further and to explore more of what I like and dislike in a true filthy safe space. I cherish my kink a lot and it’s nice to share it with someone that has the same sentiment." - D
"Miss Pamela Blonde was a genuine, friendly and welcoming Domme from start to finish. She put me at ease, while also roughly punishing my arse and balls. I was dripping from the moment I got undressed! She allowed me to worship Her while keeping me well disciplined. We finished with a final session of pain play, and I was very happy to fulfill Her desires. I am looking forward to seeing Miss again soon, and would recommend Her to anyone." - G
"I had been looking to book a session with a Domme for a while and I decided on Miss P. This was my first ever session with anyone before and I'm so glad I picked Her! She made me feel comfortable from the get go and sat me down to talk about what I was looking for from the session and any limits I had and these hard limits were kept to throughout the session. Miss P was the perfect Domme for me as a newbie and I can't wait to session with Her again. If you are new to this (or experienced) I would definitely suggest Miss P for the way She handled my session. Thank you!" - C
"I had a fantastic time with Pamela Blonde. I booked a no mercy ballbusting session and She really didn’t have any mercy, it was amazing. Her photos don’t do Her justice, She is even more stunning in real life. Looking forward to get another session booked again soon." - R
"I had the honour of getting to spend some time with Miss P recently. She was everything I hoped for and so much more. I felt so comfortable talking about my kinks and what I wanted from the session, which She absolutely delivered on. One of my main kinks is high heels and Miss P made me worship and clean Her shoes which I absolutely loved. She looked absolutely incredible towering over me in Her pleaser heels while I was on all fours doing what I was told. Can't wait to see Her again" - T
"Having just got home from my first session with Miss Blonde I’m still buzzing and am stuck with a big stupid grin on my face! As soon as I arrived, despite my nervousness, She made me feel welcome and comfortable for what was to come. Miss Blonde is even more radiant and beautiful in person than Her pictures do Her credit, and She has a delightfully mischievous demeanour. During the session, Miss Blonde was always in control and every activity was a pleasure with Her (even with the pain). When She stood over me, I could see how She enjoys Her work and can make every session special. She was born for this, and I feel incredibly lucky I’ve had the chance to serve Her in person and can’t wait until the next time. " - J
"Mistress Pamela is a true master of Her craft. Miss lived up to all my hopes and more in Her sense of power, grace and beauty. Not only was the session itself incredibly awakening and exciting but the before and after treatment is extremely professional and you are made to feel comfortable and at ease immediately on entering the space." - J
My first steps into the D/S environment couldn't have been handled any better from Miss Blonde. My initial request was answered swiftly and all follow up emails were to the point, with the session being organised and finalised very quickly. The opportunity arose to book a double domme session with another iconic lady and the request was again handled speedily. It was during the initial booking phase that I should have probably articulated that it would be my first time with a domme, never mind 2. Added to that it was in a fully equipped dungeon. However from the moment I stepped in, Miss Blonde immediately put me at ease. Then when I told Her I'd never sessioned before She again went to some lengths to make me as comfortable in this new environment as possible. As we moved into the session itself, I never felt any awkwardness at any point. Miss Blonde's demeanour made me feel at ease at all times and I relaxed into Her care. She managed to provide strict direction whilst also injecting some humour into the session, which I appreciated greatly. The tone of Her voice, the look in Her eyes and Her touch had me aroused throughout (even if it didn't show). She knew what to do and when to do it. It was a perfectly choreographed session which built up to an amazing crescendo. I thoroughly enjoyed my session and consider myself lucky that had the opportunity to session with Miss Blonde. I look forward to further exploration of my kinks with Her and would wholeheartedly recommend Her to anyone - E
"First of I'd like to underline the fact that you were : -swift to answer my initial request -thorough about every detail during our exchange leading up to the moment I rang at the dungeon's door That might not be the most exciting part to speak about, but those two aspects showed me I was in the hands of a very professional and responsible person, and were an important step in building the trust I would have for you later on. Regarding the session, there was no awkwardness at any point, you made me feel instantly at ease. You were also able to keep a level head during the entirety of the session, quickly solving any little technical issues we could be faced with and thus not letting me get "out of it" at any point. I appreciate the fact that we gradually descended from this formal (actually not even that formal) exchange into action without me even noticing it. When I try to recall how I felt around you, I'd say it was a deep sense of confidence in you and in myself. I perceived inner peace and comfort. Your smile, demeanour and most of all facial expression had a soothing yet arousing effect on me, and made me know early on I would be able to really let go and give in to your every biddings. And those eyes. My God. Those eyes. Words can't do them justice. They switch from the elegantly blasé expression of someone who knows She could have anyone at Her feet with a nonchalant snap of Her fingers to the mischievous spark of a frisky succubus. In France we have the expression "la femme-enfant", which has no equivalent in british (guess the closest would be "babyface"), to describe a woman with an expression of innocence yet (often devilish) playfulness. I'm an absolute sucker for this attribute, and you cranked it up to 11. Speaking of it right now makes me feel how docile my mind was while listening to your voice. Taking pictures at the end was an exciting conclusion, and felt like doing justice to this delightful moment we had just spent together. I felt genuine joy and pride when you asked me about publishing them Thank you so much for what you are doing. Spending this afternoon with you was a thrilling, liberating experience. You were perfect all the way." - A
I have had a number of sessions with Miss Blonde, and each one has been an amazing experience. She is excellent at making me feel comfortable in sessions and exploring new ideas. She always takes time to talk and lets me settle into the setting. Her voice, along with her stunning looks makes being in Her presence and serving Her an unbelievable time. I really look forward to serving Her in the future. - Sub D November 2023
Had my second fantastic session with Miss Pamela, easy to talk to right from the start, Miss Pamela put any nerves I had to ease and discusses some of what kinks we might do. Miss Pamela was quite encouraging getting me to do stuff I had never done before or even go further with pain than I thought I could manage giving me some beautiful marks, which she just loved giving. I can't stop thinking about both sessions with Miss Pamela now. Both such unique experiences leave me desiring the next session! If you've not had a chance to book a session do so and try to book in advance as she's usually fully booked and you don't want to leave it to late and miss out on an amazing opportunity! Sub DG - October 2023
I had my first professional session with Miss Pamela this week in Edinburgh and she took me at very short notice which was extremely accommodating of her. Before the session she was very clear and communicative of what needed done before the session and time/location. The session was absolutely fantastic, from the warm and friendly introduction and running through house rules to being her play thing for the hour. Being tied up, spanked and getting to worship Miss Pamela was a pleasure. She took into consideration all my kinks and really tailored a great first session with me allowing me to give up control and let her guide me through my fantasy’s and made me feel comfortable and safe in the session too which is massively important. I highly recommend getting a session with Miss Pamela if the opportunity arises, she really is a one of a kind elite Domme! - Sub S January 2024
Thank you for tonight Miss Pamela, I had the time of my life! For my 1st ever dominatrix session you made me feel so comfortable, euphoric, humiliated, happy & many other amazing things. Btw when you wrapped your legs around my head as I was sucking your strap on, so unexpected! Probably the most embarrassed & excited I’ve been in my life! Thank you so much! Online you are absolutely beautiful, but seeing you irl was perfection. When my eyes finally got to come off the floor & look up, all I could think was wow! Again thank you so much, I truly did have a magical experience & would 100% love to session again sometime - Sub M
As someone who had never experienced a session with a pro-domme before, I was extremely nervous about my first meeting with Miss Pamela – a mistress whose reputation preceded her from various online sources and who came highly recommended from several people I’d chatted to. I can say with utter assurance that from the moment I sheepishly walked through the dungeon door, almost close to letting my anxiety get the better of me and walking away last second, my expectations were thoroughly shattered. Welcoming me with a cordial smile and calming presence, Miss Pamela quickly put me at ease, asking me to get changed and ready for our session together. And as we began, her transition from pre-scene small talk to commanding pro-domme was superfluous and captivating, forcing you to leave behind your worries and former self to be moulded in her playful and capable hands. Miss Pamela carries herself with unnerved confidence and an austere beauty that showcases all the hallmarks of a domme who knows what is expected of her submissives whilst being attentive to their needs. From the moment you are strapped into the bondage chair or from the first second you feel the collar fasten around your neck, you feel a deep sense of security and yet flooded with giddy anticipation. She is warm, yet firm; playful, yet commanding; lucid, yet imaginative. It is these beautiful contrasts that make her charm seductive as well as irresistible. The dungeon – The Lilia’s Vault – is excellently furnished and features a state-of-the-art medical playroom, two large and well-equipped playrooms, changing rooms and showering facilities. It is truly a brilliant creation that reflects the industrious efforts, attention to detail and appreciation of her craft by Miss Pamela, where in the dim red glow of the dungeon lights you begin to fall under her enchanting presence. But beyond the rubber and chastity cages, past the spanking bench and teasing, there lies a much greater reward in a session with Miss Pamela. She does not just dole out a lesson in discipline. A session with Miss Pamela is as much an experience in kink as it is in confidence, one that imbues you with a better understanding of yourself as she steers not shoves you to becoming the best kinky version of yourself under her cool, collected guidance. And that alone is more than a reason for a return visit.
Had my first ever dominatrix session with Miss Pamela today and it was amazing ! I was really nervous at first but was quickly made to feel comfortable. Miss Pamela was really easy to talk to and a true professional. Miss looked stunning dressed all in latex and having the privilege to shine and worship that latex was thrilling. So glad I took the leap and booked, I couldn’t have asked for a better first session. Thank you !
I had a really good time and was worth every penny. I hope to see Miss Pamela again and will likely look for a longer session. Miss Pamela knew how to have me admit what a little slut I am and had me moaning and begging. She humiliated and praised me such a heady mix of wanting to please and being ashamed. I think she had a fun time too and enjoys her role and I suspect is even kinkier than me. So I am willing and hope to learn new things with Pamela as she made me feel safe first and foremost and trust is key in a domme/sub relationship. We ran over a bit and Miss Pamela was cool about which is appreciated . I highly recommend and urge you to treat Miss Pamela with the respect and reverence she deserves.
Without a doubt Mistress Pamela enjoys her work. On entering her "treatment" room I was made to strip and position myself on a leather chaise lounge in a way that gave her easy access to my cock and balls. Mistress then applied a cock and ball clamp to hold everything in position while she went about applying many needles to my cock. She was very pleased with her work and how beautiful it looked and she then went on to applying needles to my balls. This was quite intense and was the most needles I have ever had in my balls. It was obvious that Mistress was enjoying doing to this and was feeding off my reactions. She then went on to produce a beautiful crown of thorns, another very intense experience. After the session I was offered and took a shower and Mistress chatted about the session and what else we could do. Overall this was a fantastic experience from a Mistress who is genuinely into med fet. - Sub J
An absolute pleasure seeing Miss Pamela again, she knows my like and dislikes but with her enthusiasm and encouragement she’s able to push & further my limits each time. Cant wait for the next session. First time doing a double with Miss Pamela and what an amazing experience it was having her fuck me as one half of a spit roast, She is an amazing dominatrix. No clock watching and always gives time at the end for shower and a little chat afterwards. Overall another fantastic session and will be back for more.
My time with Mistress Pamela blonde was one I’ll never forget. She pushed my limits but knew when to stop and when not to and she really knows how to spank and enjoys it. I genuinely felt that all her attention was with me during our session. She made every minute count while using me for her enjoyment and god did I love every moment of it. Opened my eyes more to many things which was amazing. Shower and time to talk over the session at the end was provided which was really good. Overall an incredible experience and will be counting down the days until I can see her again.